by ashl on Mon Feb 16, 2009 6:30 pm
Sounds like you've got three separate issues going on.
First, the space--unless you're trying to deliberately make a port or sherry-like mead, it's best to use a carboy properly sized for the batch. Leaving more than a few inches of headspace in the carboy means both lots of oxidation and more risk of contamination, as well as making it more difficult for you to handle when racking. If you just can't fill the carboy up, pyrex marbles can be added as an inactive space filler--a lot of people use these to compensate for volume losses in racking--but that should be minimized as it will slow fermentation and aging.
Second, contamination--without seeing it, it may or may not be worth saving. Some mead forms a scum as a fermentation byproduct--it's composed of all the not-honey bits in the honey and dead yeasties. On the other hand, might be mold, which frequently tastes awful at best. I'd skim it off, and if it's mold, sterilize and re-culture with a known yeast. See above--honey will take care of itself much of the time, but all that extra air and surface doesn't.
Third, lack of bubbles--Mead does this. After the first stage of fermentation, it's usually going to slow down. I wouldn't worry unless it quits completely (no bubbles at all in a day).